Why do ENTPs like INFJs

INFJ

INFJs as they typically are

INFJs are warm and considerate individuals who exude a gentle idealism that is often inspirational to others. While INFJs usually have haughty and ingenious ideas about how things should be, they nonetheless tend to work with individuals in a one-on-one situation rather than competitive crowds or groups. In this way, INFJs often differ from ENFJs, which are better suited to effecting large-scale social change by influencing not the opinions of certain individuals but the opinion of society as a whole.

In conversation, INFJs tend to be a little reluctant to speak openly with people who are not yet their confidante. On the flip side, they're very good at getting other people to speak openly and trusting INFJs with feelings that they barely knew they had. That is why many people around the INFJ see them more as enigmatic and friendly personalities.

However, once an INFJ has accepted someone as a genuine interlocutor and feels safe in their presence, the INFJ will tend to speak extensively and with passionate enthusiasm about the subjects that interest them. While INFJs may usually seem reserved (and even a little distant) in conversation, when the conditions are right, INFJs begin to share their innermost thoughts. It is typical in such situations that the INFJ shows its sensitive and personable nature. Suddenly he is lively and enthusiastic and reveals a holistic view of the topic, in contrast to the NT types.

Often INFJs have an intellectual side and their acumen tends to be well developed. INFJs, however, are rarely interested in understanding logical relationships and the mechanical properties of objects in vacuum: they prefer to know that what they are doing makes sense to others - if not to concrete people, then to humanity in the abstract.

INFJs tend to indulge themselves completely in intellectual pursuit and wander. Often they will try to immerse themselves in their subject, convinced that there is a higher unity to be found between apparently dichotomous entities such as observation and action, subject and object, free will and determinism, and humanity and nature. It is the discernment of this unit that will hold the key to a full understanding of the subject.

As a result of this mindset, INFJs can often become philosophers or ethical or spiritual leaders, dealing with a higher vision for themselves and others and the growth of individuals according to the principles and value systems of the INFJ. Because their enthusiasm is real, the INFJ will often find it easy to inspire others to join their vision and to partner with the INFJ in pursuing common goals.

Despite the fact that INFJs often have their own ideas about how things should be, they also feel called to empathize with the feelings of others and embrace them in the interests of promoting interpersonal harmony. Often times, because of this inner conflict, the INFJ is torn apart and pulled in opposite directions: On the one hand, they really want to help others understand them and make them grow. On the other hand, they also long to turn their own ideas into reality, even if those ideas contradict the immediate and short-term desires of others.

Because of their propensity to accommodate others, INFJs can sometimes be overwhelmed by their social responsibilities or the needs of others. INFJs are contemplative introverts; They need time to reflect, plan, and think through their course of action on a particular matter. If they are deprived of the opportunity to do so, it is all too easy for the INFJs to end up sacrificing themselves to meet the needs of the group.

While INFJ enjoy socializing and often have a genuine interest in other people, they can still feel drained if they are too considerate of the needs of others without paying equal attention to their own needs. In this way, INFJs often do well in the role of advisor, guide, or advisor, where they can naturally balance the time they spend with others with the time they spend on their own ideas.

Overall, INFJs are both excellent problem solvers and indispensable helpers for others. They tend to dislike confrontation and are often uniquely receptive to how to avoid stagnation or bottlenecks by putting opposing positions together to form a larger whole. You genuinely care about others and are good at speaking to them in a way that will help you get the best out of them and help them see the things that connect us all - not just with each other, but ultimately with the world.